All woman are catty...sometimes I revel in the fact that I can judge - specifically I used to get a kick out of a certain female meteorologist's outfit choices - or as I called it - getting dressed in the dark while on psychedelic drugs. However, I also think that woman are far to critical of other woman. I have started doing things a little differently. Don't get me wrong, I still laugh at some outfits on TV. Of course my favorite weather girl had to go and get a new clothing allowance and a stylist. But now, on the subway or on the streets, rather than doing the 'stare you up and down' I try and find something positive to say (or think) rather than go straight to the negative. For instance, your dress may be hideous, but those shoes are supercute.
I also love when you get that feeling that people, predominantly catty bi&#^$, are giving you the stare down cause that is when I love to look them right in the eye like, What? I don't recall asking for your acceptance or opinion of my clothing choice of the day so walk on.